Is it possible for a 5-yr old to talk TOO much? [View all]

From an early age, I've encouraged my daughter to use her words as much as possible when she needs to communicate. I've read many hundreds of books to her since she was a baby. I talk to her about almost anything, especially anything science-related since my degree is in biochemistry. My original plan before becoming a lab tech was to become a science teacher, so I love her constant curiosity and inquisitiveness.

Here's the problem: my wife is much more introverted than I am, and doesn't talk nearly as much, even in social gatherings with friends. Her idea of a fun afternoon/evening is a quiet house and a good book.

This is causing a considerable amount of stress in our house, because our daughter is at that age where everything piques her curiosity. When I'm at work, she's constantly peppering Mommy with questions, to the point that my wife will frequently leave for work early just to get some quiet time, or retreat to the bedroom as soon as I come through the front door. More often, she's losing her temper and snapping at her.

I've talked to our daughter about giving Mommy some quiet time to herself while she builds her Legos, plays some video games, colors, etc, but this has had the effect of making me the favored parent and causing more conflict.

Anyone have some suggestions? I don't think my wife will change her behavior anytime soon, so that leaves only myself and our daughter to work with.