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seabeyond

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13. the baby is 10 months old. it is only recently that she is getting frustrated with this.
Wed Jan 25, 2012, 10:22 PM
Jan 2012

making a greater demand for quiet. something is up, somewhere. that baby is being woken before its time, or other things are frustrating her and this is where she is taking it out instead of discussing the real issue.

i perused articles. every article says quiet, cool, dark environment for sleep. yes, regular noise around the house is ok, as long as they are quiet. a flushed toilet by the room can be the one to trigger awake, but reality, we have to use the bathroom.

but something is up somewhere. i would be into finding out what is truly stressing her. or pay attention if the baby isnt getting the environment for the structured, consistent naps.

the baby sleeps at NIGHT in a QUIET house. we are not concerned that is going to screw up the ability to sleep the rest of the babies life. no one is making noise at night and it is a much longer period of sleep. so it makes absolutely no sense at all to suggest a quiet environment for naptime is unhealthy.

with consistent, adequate naps, the baby will go down easier for a long sleep at night. it is important. if a baby does not get enough sleep in the day, is overtired, is over stimulated and fussy by bedtime, it does not result in a child that conks out for the night. the opposite. the baby has a poor night of sleep.

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i am all for it. my oldest slept poorly. woke easily. was hell if he didnt get enough sleep seabeyond Jan 2012 #1
Do you think it would be handy if you could do housework while the baby sleeps? tridim Jan 2012 #3
my oldest was a different baby. my youngest was way in back of house and it wasnt an issue seabeyond Jan 2012 #4
I respect your opinion, but completely disagree. tridim Jan 2012 #8
the baby is 10 months old. it is only recently that she is getting frustrated with this. seabeyond Jan 2012 #13
It actually has been the norm since day one.. I just started questioning it recently. tridim Jan 2012 #15
you say he is healthy, sleeps well and is well taken care of. seabeyond Jan 2012 #18
i was also home alone with him most of his nap time. i got things done, without making noise that seabeyond Jan 2012 #6
Babies need to get used to noise cyberswede Jan 2012 #2
"DU consensus".... Bwwwwaaaaaaahaaaaaaaaaaaahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa. Scuba Jan 2012 #5
no? not gonna happen? seabeyond Jan 2012 #7
i just got that made me laugh leftyohiolib Jan 2012 #11
unrealistic request this must be her first, baby that is leftyohiolib Jan 2012 #9
Yep, first kid.. tridim Jan 2012 #10
not all babies adapt- mine never did, each is different Tumbulu Jan 2012 #20
oh dear mzteris Jan 2012 #12
My brother said she gets upset when he wakes up and cries, which I assume is motherly instinct. tridim Jan 2012 #14
a few more questions mzteris Jan 2012 #16
. tridim Jan 2012 #17
when the baby sleeps, mom is supposed to be sleeping too and that means naps. Tumbulu Jan 2012 #22
yeah, but you're setting yourself up mzteris Jan 2012 #24
I'm a mom to a auditory sensitive 10 yr old Tumbulu Jan 2012 #25
Ok - there are ALWAYS EXCEPTIONS mzteris Jan 2012 #26
the baby sleeps in total quiet at night. we arent concerned about that. nt seabeyond Jan 2012 #29
Pleased to meet you! /snark chloes1 Jan 2012 #28
Screw that. They sleep on your shoulder in malls. The "total silence" thing raises light sleepers. HopeHoops Jan 2012 #19
you are lucky that you got such a sleeper Tumbulu Jan 2012 #21
The middle one is 18 and still passed out - not so sure about the "lucky" thing anymore. HopeHoops Jan 2012 #23
My parents were alcoholics. YellowRubberDuckie Jan 2012 #27
I'm late to this one. But the answer is easy. Robb Feb 2012 #30
I think you should be able to carry on reasonably normal activities. alphafemale May 2012 #31
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