Not a political religion thread, but are there any Church Secretaries, Office Managers, Admins... [View all]

Pastors and so forth that can help me understand the Church Office psyche?

I retired last year and thought a Church Office position would be lowkey and fun.
BOY was I mistaken!

It's worse than any office I worked in (white collar) over my 40 year career.
Backbiting, hearsay, and misdirection is all part of the 'structure' here.. as if there was any structure.
Our pastor is pretty much 'like Trump' in that he thinks rules do not apply to him and whatever he says goes because he's the boss.

The SPRC is pretty much letting it slide... he's the boss.. do what he says... document issues.. and then... yeah, and then NOTHING, kinda of like the Republican led Senate.

This is ONLY my first church office position and only one pastor.. but I'm thinking this CANT be the norm.. where Christ is taught upstairs in the sanctuary, but downstairs, the halos come off and it's a 7th Grade Mean Girls arena!

HELP!