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Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
4. rbnyc - so much hurt going on for you
Fri Dec 21, 2012, 07:54 AM
Dec 2012


And then a 14 hour day. Dayum.

Sounds like you are really second-guessing yourself, and you just don't need to do that.

You were RIGHT to stand up for yourself. Nobody has the right to treat you like crap.

You were RIGHT to not let a messed-up loved one mess up your life, too.

We shouldn't have to make these kinds of decisions; people should all do the right thing. But they don't.

And you, lovely woman, do NOT need to feel you must carry the weight of the world on your shoulders.

Set it down. It's not your burden, baby!

Do what you can do to the best of your ability. That's all that's expected of you.


I am very sorry for your recent loss; the love you have for Paul will always be.

Take care of you right now, because you deserve happiness no matter what others choose to do with their own lives and time.




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