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onecent

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10. I'm sorry to hear of your loss. It IS very difficult to deal with
Tue Jun 18, 2013, 07:52 AM
Jun 2013

certain family members, especially in times like this, and often wonder why it turns some people into vultures.

Of course, some things never change, there is the inheritance factor, and many other factors, but this appears to be almost
a power play to keep some of the important family members from making adequate arrangements...almost on purpose.
Yes, the pastor should be able to accommodate...and I don't know your mother, but it seems she would need these family members to lean on.

I sense your uneasiness,...and am sending you love and blessings to deal with this situation.

Hugs to you and your family!
Penny

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My dad died this afternoon. [View all] murielm99 Jun 2013 OP
Sorry to hear. The DU Bereavement group might be more kind. NYC_SKP Jun 2013 #1
Please accept my condolences. TexasTowelie Jun 2013 #2
I'm very sorry to hear this, murielm99. elleng Jun 2013 #3
I'm sorry for your loss. kentauros Jun 2013 #4
Thank you everyone, for your kind words. murielm99 Jun 2013 #5
Sorry for your loss. Vibes to your applegrove Jun 2013 #6
i'm very sorry for your loss orleans Jun 2013 #7
I'm so sorry, muriel... OneGrassRoot Jun 2013 #8
I am sorry to hear of your loss. cate94 Jun 2013 #9
I'm sorry to hear of your loss. It IS very difficult to deal with onecent Jun 2013 #10
I'm very sorry for your loss. Ilsa Jun 2013 #11
I am sure this pastor will not listen to me. murielm99 Jun 2013 #12
i wouldn't bother trying to contact the pastor orleans Jun 2013 #13
No, it's okay. Ilsa Jun 2013 #19
I am sorry for your loss Ricochet21 Jun 2013 #14
Sorry that you are going through all this moonbeam23 Jun 2013 #15
Condolences on your loss LiberalEsto Jun 2013 #16
Deepest sympathies on your loss. davsand Jun 2013 #17
Hoping his passing was peaceful. southerncrone Jun 2013 #18
Sorry to hear. kimmerspixelated Jun 2013 #20
Condolences to You MagickMuffin Jun 2013 #21
My condolences Sienna86 Jun 2013 #22
I'm so sorry, Muriel. Mnemosyne Jun 2013 #23
I'm so sorry for your loss, murielm magical thyme Jun 2013 #24
Thank you. murielm99 Jun 2013 #25
I am so sorry. I hope everything works out well for your family's juajen Jun 2013 #26
I'm sorry for your loss and BlueToTheBone Jun 2013 #27
I'm sorry for your loss. BlueToTheBone Jul 2013 #28
:( my belated condolences NuttyFluffers Jul 2013 #29
Thank you. n/t murielm99 Jul 2013 #30
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