Bereavement

That visitations stay in your memory much longer. I can wake up from just having had a dream and literally two minutes later, the plot is all jumbled up in my mind and then all trace of it is gone. But, the "soul
experience" I had at age 17 is still totally intact.

I have read two accounts, I think two, of spirits who have communicated to their usual mediums their witnessing soul repair to terribly damaged, abused souls. Those were conducted by a master in the spirit world. So, I guess a soul can be damaged, but what I think of is a child spending years in a closet, being starved, continually punished. For just minor soul lack of readiness to accept death or move on, I've read that souls just sleep and sleep until their minds are sufficiently removed from whatever earthly confusions or doubts they had.

I'm happy to hear you're ready for your husband's soul to move on. The other side, if one has lived decently, is reportedly wonderful beyond our imagination! Unfortunately, I doubt I'll qualify for the level I experienced at 17. Still, I can't wait to hear gardens that play music according to the color of the flowers...both sound and color have frequency, I guess.