Bereavement

markie

(23,519 posts)

33. really no words

Fri Jan 27, 2023, 02:24 PM

Jan 2023

but we do try sometimes... I am truly so sorry for your loss (I used to hate those words when people said that to me but I realize there are no good words)

Thank you for the words you write

In the past 4-5 years, I have lost my mother, my father, a son, (lesser degree- a business that was meant to help the community) another son in an accident with TBI.... my husband was the one who kept me together... he died a little over a year ago and I still haven't figured out how people manage great loss everyday

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Grief spasms. [View all] barbtries Jan 2023 OP

My heart hurts for you Barbtries. Duncanpup Jan 2023 #1

ditto Duncanpup. barbtries Jan 2023 #2

I am so sorry for your loss and the grief that never ends. LiberalLoner Jan 2023 #3

I love that quote. barbtries Jan 2023 #4

❤️🙏 LiberalLoner Jan 2023 #6

You are right---those who have not lost a child can't understand the profound grief and sadness Atticus Jan 2023 #5

absolutely Atticus. barbtries Jan 2023 #7

I'm sorry, Barbtries Bayard Jan 2023 #8

that is so, so sad. barbtries Jan 2023 #10

I was discussing this very issue with my therapist, last week Siwsan Jan 2023 #9

I see Grief as kind of a being. barbtries Jan 2023 #12

Sending you a hug Wild blueberry Jan 2023 #11

thank you Wild blueberry barbtries Jan 2023 #13

Sending you loving thoughts and hugs. MLAA Jan 2023 #14

Thank you MLAA! barbtries Jan 2023 #15

You are right Butterflylady Jan 2023 #16

oh Butterflylady. barbtries Jan 2023 #19

Hugs back mgardener Jan 2023 #17

i wish you weren't. barbtries Jan 2023 #20

❤️ littlemissmartypants Jan 2023 #18

thank you littlemisssmartypants barbtries Jan 2023 #21

Thank You, barb! Yes, ma'am. That's what I was told anyway. littlemissmartypants Jan 2023 #26

Breathe Deep mizogan Jan 2023 #22

good advice. barbtries Jan 2023 #24

Whenever you share what the loss of Bekah has been like for you MontanaMama Jan 2023 #23

thank you MontanaMama. barbtries Jan 2023 #25

oh barbtries, you must miss her so much! CTyankee Jan 2023 #27

yes. I want her back. barbtries Jan 2023 #29

There is a good thing and Daisy would have loved it! I have a grandchild born and named Dante and CTyankee Jan 2023 #34

the way I look at it, barbtries Jan 2023 #36

at her service her brother (my exhusband) said "Daisy always said I was the smart one in the family CTyankee Jan 2023 #37

lol barbtries Jan 2023 #38

He was actually surprised when he was served divorce papers. He said that was "cold." CTyankee Jan 2023 #39

well, you know, he's the smart one. barbtries Jan 2023 #40

Yeah, well this "smart one" divorced his lying ass...his girl friend ended up paying for his kids CTyankee Jan 2023 #41

Sending love and strength, Barbtries. momta Jan 2023 #28

Thank you momta. barbtries Jan 2023 #30

I too have lost a beloved daughter. SheltieLover Jan 2023 #31

SheltieLover barbtries Jan 2023 #32

I don't think there is a why, at least not one that makes any sense. 3catwoman3 Feb 2023 #44

I don't think there's a why. barbtries Feb 2023 #45

I have read all posts. My heart aches for all that have suffered loss. sprinkleeninow Feb 2023 #46

really no words markie Jan 2023 #33

markie, barbtries Jan 2023 #35

my sympathy to you Skittles Jan 2023 #42

Thank you. barbtries Jan 2023 #43