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Trueblue Texan

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30. I was actually thinking this morning...
Wed Jul 30, 2025, 12:47 PM
Wednesday

This feels like active grief...the kind that lives in your heart for the rest of your years. We grieved over the election. The shock of it. The disbelief. But this part feels like the acceptance of the fate we are living--for now. This feels like the acknowledgment that we can't have what was ever again. We have to make a new life for ourselves. We have to make a new democracy that can't be so easily squashed by an illiterate, evil moron. The only consolation is once we finally get to the bottom of this grievous moment, there will be only one direction to move.

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MLK said, "The arc of the moral universe is long but it bends toward justice." Ocelot II Wednesday #1
I agree. We should be farther along that arc. MineralMan Wednesday #2
I have always loved that quote (in my opinion one of the best, and most poignant, ever) stopdiggin Wednesday #8
I had a patient who was a quadrapalegic Hornedfrog2000 Yesterday #83
LOL popsdenver Wednesday #57
I don't understand your LOL -- this is not a laughing matter Hekate 15 hrs ago #89
NOPE popsdenver 11 hrs ago #91
That quote from MLK never made any sense before and it doesn't now NoRethugFriends Wednesday #76
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I turned 80 in Dec 2024 AverageOldGuy Wednesday #4
We worked very hard Mblaze Wednesday #5
I'm 75 and when I was 11 years old multigraincracker Wednesday #6
... emulatorloo Wednesday #7
sorry you are feeling tired and down Kali Wednesday #9
I turned 79 this summer. Biophilic Wednesday #10
dear mm. ever since the devistatimg kerry and edwards losss , i have been at a loss. AllaN01Bear Wednesday #11
I am feeling much the same way PatSeg Wednesday #12
right there with you.... markie Wednesday #13
Yes, we carry on. MineralMan Wednesday #14
I was actually thinking this morning... Trueblue Texan Wednesday #30
I was born in 1949. Scruffy1 Wednesday #15
Yes. That's what I have done since 1960. MineralMan Wednesday #16
Freedom Is a Constant Struggle struggle4progress Wednesday #80
I'm 81. Your life and mine have a lot of parallels. "Old age ain't for sissies" Bette Davis Ping Tung Wednesday #17
Big K&R for a Big DU Contributor Martin Eden Wednesday #18
Thanks for sharing your hard earned wisdom and perspective! A bit younger, but I shared your disappointment. I have wiggs Wednesday #19
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Uh. no, thanks! MineralMan Wednesday #21
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It sure looks like it wendyb-NC Wednesday #25
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Corporate power and capitalism will not allow the kind of progress we yearn for. BWdem4life Wednesday #27
When I was in high school, if a girl got pregnant out of wedlock she had two choices. totodeinhere Wednesday #28
Seeing the same stuff... Trueblue Texan Wednesday #29
On the subject of children and grandchildren popsdenver Wednesday #58
Happy birthday . . . I think. I'm 4 years behind you, but your post feels like going back in the time machine. Vinca Wednesday #31
Thanks for the reply! MineralMan Wednesday #33
Thank you for your heart felt post MineralMan. 1WorldHope Wednesday #32
You have done more than most. At some point, our role becomes to advise the younger LoisB Wednesday #34
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Not as happy as I might have liked, I'm afraid. MineralMan Wednesday #36
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Soon to be 86 and I have those same feelings! young_at_heart Wednesday #46
I am happy that you remain mentally fit and hale enough to share that with us... Moostache Wednesday #47
These are difficult times. No question about it. MineralMan Wednesday #50
Thank you for all of your service! Tbear Wednesday #48
Excellent post MM. It really is a cruel and unraveling Evolve Dammit Wednesday #49
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Dear MM, sinkingfeeling Wednesday #65
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Dear MineralMan, if I may JMCKUSICK Wednesday #69
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You accomplished much. creeksneakers2 Wednesday #70
Nothing Is Wasted. / You speak for me, MM. Your life has been so much more adventurous than mine ... Hekate Wednesday #71
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To Everyone Who Visited This Thread: Thank you so much! MineralMan 22 hrs ago #85
And what changed during your 80 and my 78 years? Septua 22 hrs ago #86
This Hekate 20 hrs ago #88
You may be disappointed, but don't be discouraged vanessa_ca 21 hrs ago #87
I'm 76 and feel I have a job to do to meet these times The Blue Flower 14 hrs ago #90
It's a dark place in our history for certain Septua 8 hrs ago #92
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