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In reply to the discussion: I had a friend. [View all]

applegrove

(126,785 posts)
42. PTSD here. Meds give me a strong baseline. I don't
Tue Jul 15, 2025, 09:25 PM
Yesterday

help the public except online in one way or another. Wish I could but I can't help people in person. Count your lucky stars. From someone who has been through hell to another, suffer and mourn every loss. Cry. You get endorphins at the end of a cry. As a child you did it when you were hurt and were then pure joy again. You feel the loss when you cry and then reconnect to a new reality at the end and you are deeper and wiser and can soon access all the memories and laugh and wiggle both your ears. ...... remember the cracks are how the light gets in. And when you are going through hell, keep going.

You have much to be proud of. You are lucky. To be a giver in a world of takers is lucky indeed. You could have been born one of them. Love your posts on the DU.

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I had a friend. [View all] LuckyCharms Monday OP
Well, I'm replying anyway. I'll be up for a few more hours. Keep typing. 2MuchNoise Monday #1
Hold on to your wife... homegirl Monday #2
Neither one of us can communicate properly about it. LuckyCharms Monday #3
show her this post. mopinko Monday #6
This message was self-deleted by its author madaboutharry Yesterday #23
What mopinko said. madaboutharry Yesterday #25
Still loved Astrocyte Monday #4
Lucky UpInArms Monday #5
We might be twins! I, too, have been used by blood family and never given a chance Karadeniz Monday #7
You're a better man than I am. You inspire me to do better. chicoescuela Monday #8
Whoa, powerful post wendyb-NC Monday #9
I know you said "no response necessary" but I will talk to you for 5, 6, 7... hours anytime you LoisB Monday #10
I hope you know that so many of us here do feel your pain, mostly because we have alwaysinasnit Monday #11
..... sprinkleeninow Yesterday #12
Dear Lucky, Bayard Yesterday #13
Sending a hug and love. summer_in_TX Yesterday #14
You won't know how to reply and I don't know how to answer. sheshe2 Yesterday #15
We're here for you, LC. democrank Yesterday #16
Gosh, Lucky, I had no idea... hamsterjill Yesterday #17
Stay strong,... Dan Yesterday #18
I feel you pain--- I live it, in my own version Jack Valentino Yesterday #19
You are cherished here, Lucky. yorkster Yesterday #20
Type away, LC...type away. rubbersole Yesterday #21
Hugs to you. Big hugs. You've been through so much. Ilsa Yesterday #22
You have to try to get help with medication. Antidepressants. Pompoy Yesterday #24
This message was self-deleted by its author LudwigPastorius Yesterday #26
Thanks for telling your story, LuckyCharms.. Permanut Yesterday #27
Well, it seems that all who have Figarosmom Yesterday #28
I have always enjoyed your humorous post Lifeafter70 Yesterday #29
You gotta know True Dough Yesterday #30
DU loves ya brotha AZJonnie Yesterday #31
Being endlessly strong for others can really be a drag sometimes lostnfound Yesterday #32
I'm so sorry about what you're going through, LuckyCharms. calimary Yesterday #33
''a dewdrop on a flower or a heap of dung, the morning light sparkles on it just the same'' Donkees Yesterday #34
that is beautiful Annie Moosee Yesterday #39
It's morning, LuckyCharms. You up? 2MuchNoise Yesterday #35
I really can't hug you across the internet, but there's lots of DU folks that care about you. sinkingfeeling Yesterday #36
If writing helps Marthe48 Yesterday #37
I love you Kali Yesterday #38
I lost my best friend to suicide Annie Moosee Yesterday #40
As someone who is dealing with a lot of unresolved grief, I recognize a fellow traveler. VTderry Yesterday #41
PTSD here. Meds give me a strong baseline. I don't applegrove Yesterday #42
No reply necessary. OldBaldy1701E Yesterday #43
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