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Lifeafter70

(726 posts)
22. Yes he is finally sleeping
Wed Nov 5, 2025, 08:08 PM
Nov 5

He is so relieved. Someone is actually listening to him. Pain docs are good but when it comes to cancer pain there are a lot of laws that limit what they can prescribe and how much. He has been on oxy for 10 years due to three recurrence of tumor growth. His pain doc thought he needed to lower his does during his last remission. When he had his third recurrence he wouldn't increase it cause he thought he was doing ok. ACC cells are microscopic and slow growing so it can take months before recurrence shows up on scan not the case for increased pain.
His hospice nurse explained that long time use like he had leads to tolerance and
uncontrolled pain. This leads to self
medicating in many paitents.
He is so relieved that someone takes his pain seriously and not treat him like he is just seeking drugs.

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It's going to be a long night [View all] Lifeafter70 Nov 5 OP
🙌☮️🫶 godsentme Nov 5 #1
Thank you Lifeafter70 Nov 5 #18
Wishing both of you strength and peace and calm question everything Nov 5 #2
Thank you he is in so much pain but refuses to go to the hospital Lifeafter70 Nov 5 #4
Wishing you strength and peace at this difficult time. waterwatcher123 Nov 5 #3
Sending strength to you and your family democrank Nov 5 #5
I'm so sorry qanda Nov 5 #6
.. BlueWaveNeverEnd Nov 5 #7
Wish you the very best angrychair Nov 5 #8
My uncle had hospice and they were truly wonderful Rhiannon12866 Nov 5 #9
They were here today Lifeafter70 Nov 5 #20
I am so sorry. murielm99 Nov 5 #10
My heart goes out to you, your son, and all your loved ones. alwaysinasnit Nov 5 #11
All my good energy to you and your family Randomthought Nov 5 #12
Love and strength to all of you sdfernando Nov 5 #13
Best hopes and wishes, I am so sorry irisblue Nov 5 #14
Hospice nurses are the best. Irish_Dem Nov 5 #15
That is my hope Lifeafter70 Nov 5 #16
See edit and thank you Irish Dem Lifeafter70 Nov 5 #17
Yes I used to do some work with Hospice. Irish_Dem Nov 5 #19
Are the meds kicking in yet? Irish_Dem Nov 5 #21
Yes he is finally sleeping Lifeafter70 Nov 5 #22
Fabulous, he is sleeping. Irish_Dem Nov 5 #23
Nothing really to add, except that I'll be praying for your son (and you). hamsterjill Nov 6 #24
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