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NNadir

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Mon Aug 4, 2025, 11:31 AM Aug 4

An interesting trap when applying to adopt cats. [View all]

My wife and I lost our cat a while back, - she passed at age 18- and after much consideration about our grief, we decided to adopt another one from a shelter.

We have never done this, adopted from a shelter. For all the cats we've had, we either took them in from a relative who couldn't keep them or took in feral strays.

One feral stray, a beautiful polydactal cat tested positive for toxoplasmosis when my wife was pregnant and we had to give him away to strangers. The other feral we had didn't last too long. She was struck by a car when she went out and paralyzed. We had to put her down.

We had to fill out an application form at the shelter and among the questions they asked was whether we wanted a declawed cat. We answered no. We're OK with our cats destroying furniture and we've learned to use furniture covers to slow their process. We don't approve of declawing.

Another question asked if we wanted an indoor or outdoor cat. We said indoor since we have understood that outdoor cats don't live very long in our neighborhood, and we lost an outdoor cat years ago.

They accepted our application and gave us a mother and son cat since I wanted a mature cat and my wife wanted a kitten.

We had to sign a contract to adopt and in the contract it said that we agree to never declaw the cats and, also, to keep them as indoor cats.

It turns out that answering the question about declawing positively or indicating we wanted an outdoor cat, they would have refused to let us adopt. They were trick questions designed to screen us as suitable. (We also had to give them nonfamilial references; they actually called both of them.)

I was surprised at that. I will say there were a lot of people adopting cats when we were there, literally a line out the door.

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Maybe not so much a trap as way to select for responsible, human cat people Wild blueberry Aug 4 #1
I think the shelter is absolutely doing the right thing to assure that the cats they have been responsible for... 3catwoman3 Aug 4 #2
Congrats on your newly adopted family members! SheltieLover Aug 4 #3
I'm okay with this Metaphorical Aug 4 #4
Calico, eh? piddyprints Aug 4 #7
Yup Metaphorical Aug 6 #20
I work w/a TNR/adopt group and we ask the same questions. It's standard. We do NOT want them outdoors CurtEastPoint Aug 4 #5
I found that out when I adopted my cats in 2011. MIButterfly Aug 4 #6
The shelter named the mother Keke and my wife is changing the spelling to Kiki. NNadir Aug 4 #9
Welcome Kiki and Harry! MIButterfly Aug 4 #11
I thought they were asking KT2000 Aug 4 #8
Our application was even more extensive. piddyprints Aug 4 #10
They had those questions too as well as the cats' vaccination... NNadir Aug 4 #12
The thing that really surprised me piddyprints Aug 4 #13
Our late cat, the one who died at 18, had that thyroid issue. NNadir Aug 4 #14
Exactly my point. piddyprints Aug 4 #15
So were you able to adopt? NNadir Aug 4 #17
Yes. piddyprints Aug 4 #18
That is very typical Nigrum Cattus Aug 4 #16
Search for "barn cat" or "working cat" if you want/need an outdoor cat. They are mostly non-housebroken ferals ... eppur_se_muova Aug 4 #19
I'd be worried that if they had declawed cats to adopt tonekat Aug 13 #21
Good point. Perhaps if we'd answered "yes" they might have discussed it with us further. As it is, we ended up... NNadir Aug 14 #22
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