Seniors

And to forgive or let slide some of their peccadillos, in the interest of our long-term needs and goals. Maybe not easy, but worth it in the long term.
Know yourself re having roomie/boarder - if you and your kids have problems getting along, aren't the same problems possible/probable with roomie?
I'm considering day-help myself - I'm in my late 80's, well-situated in one-floor home.
I've seen too much of long-term care with family & friends that I'm wary of voluntarily going that route. Administrators, social workers and medical personnel who think they know what is better for you than your own knowledge of your needs and wants. Plus they know your financial resources and recommend service upgrades as "necessary" and/or the overall care costs keep rising.