African American

I know whenever I have a relative that goes to that they get shut down by the stats of white on white crime.
The subtle implication that they try to point out is that black people should be more worried about other black people and or black people are inherently violent.
People don't want to take responsibility or have the uncomfortable conversations that need to be had. But we don't discuss our prejudices how do we move forward.
I'm also always burning inside when someone says I have a black friend and they think black lives matter is stupid.
One black person doesn't represent the community any more than I can speak for all white people. People in general are way to simple